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The OW (who is only four years older than our daughter) immediately broke things off with him, wrote me a lengthy letter of apology and informed me that she was going to be filing a sexual harassment claim against him at work because he was essentially stalking her as she is a subordinate. Most of us are still babbling idiots at the 5 week mark.
She made good on her claims, but he was only given a slap on the wrist (extended probation) and they avoid each other like the plague these days.
I am just one person responsible for two human beings.
It feels like too much.“We’ve all watched you over the past few years be so strong and amazing,” Kirsten said.
Shell shocked, I instinctively contacted a friend of his from his work whom I knew would not lie to me to confirm the validity of these messages.
Not only did this particular friend confirm my nightmare and was so disgusted by his lies, she went ahead and contacted the OW to let her know she had been lied to as well since my STBX had told her we were separated.
He was trying to get her to commit to a hotel date, but his manic episodes at work were giving her pause.My mom, who adores my kids second only to their parents.As my children and their needs as people grow, it seems that our circle of people shrinks – and the pressures of being a single mother mount.But that did not make me love him any less, and did nothing to tamper the absolute devastation that pummeled me when we broke up. I’ve known Kirsten for 12 years, and even though she lives on the other side of the country, we remain very close and she knows all my shit. As I talked and sobbed and blubbered and talked some more it all came out.Even months after we split, Sundays when my kids are with their dad and I would have otherwise spent with my ex-boyfriend, I instead engaged in unseemly behavior like walking around the streets of Manhattan while bawling uncontrollably, listening to John Legend on a loop and reading the Wikipedia page on Carrie and Mr. Not only was all this embarrassing, it was also incongruous with the events at hand. Besides the end of my relationship, my mom has been unwell.
He would also get so angry when people would compliment me. Looking back, it must have been his NPD, but I just shrugged it off as insecurity at the time. Nothing like 32 empty newspaper pages coming at you every week to fill.