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As we get older, and have more life experience, we get wiser—at least that’s what my dad keeps telling me.What I do know is as I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned more about myself and what I am—or am not—willing to accept as well as what I want and don’t want from a relationship.I have friends who dated many, many years prior to getting hitched.Typically, these people also met very young and dated several years (or more) before taking that next step into marriage.
On the flip side, I have a very dear friend who waited all through her 20s and most of her 30s before finding Mr. During their courtship, they discussed marriage and the fact that they both want children.
When you’re young, you feel like time is limitless and you can squander it all you want. Set a limit on how long you’re willing to patiently wait? Maybe you want to be young, hip parents, so marriage and children are on the brain sooner.
Then suddenly, college and your 20s are gone, life gives you a reality check, and you may find yourself in a position where time is not on your side. You don’t want to rush, but you think you’ve found “The One” and time keeps ticking by. Or, maybe you don’t know how you feel about marriage or if you even want it.
And give someone an ultimatum—that’s a sure fire way to cast a negative light on your relationship.
Besides, who wants to force someone into being with them? However, it should also be noted that no one should have to sacrifice what they truly want by waiting too long.