Divorced mothers dating
The other woman told me that he is only with me because she will not see him.
I’ve been going through this with my husband over the past few years ( at least few years that I know of) and the main thing that I’m more frustrated with than anything is when he turns it around that it’s my fault that he’s lying to me! God gave you intuition, pay attention to the gut feeling, There is no trust. Don’t feed into the false belief that he will change.
I dont want to leave him, but he is pushing me away and I will eventually have to walk away. I found out that he was dating another young lady and myself for 2 years at the same time. I went back yo him because of the strong feelings I have for him.
But he continues to lie to me and tells me it’s me he wants but he is constantly texting the other lady and telling her he really misses her and wants to be with her.
When u lie to someone, u are really saying that person is not worth the truth ! You find him in a lie, yes, it is just the tip of the iceberg like Rita says. Stand strong in not excepting less than what you know you deserve. Sometimes I think the pot is more important to him than me.
like keeping intimate things private and then talks about their lovemaking adventures with someone else was lying when he agreed to keep things private but never intended to. Also, when he was in his 20’s he overcame a Cocaine addiction. At the end of the day, the problems are still there . He doesn’t remember conversations, he stinks of weed, and when he is stoned, I don’t know if his behavior is just him being a little weird that day (silly–which I love), or is it because he’s stoned.
In order to have a truly fulfilling relationship (or even start a healthy relationship) with a great guy, you need to come from a place of strength, confidence, and fulfillment.
Whenever a relationship goes sour (or fails to launch), it’s almost always caused by some tiny fear, doubt, worry or insecurity that grows and festers until you feel overwhelmed by the whole ordeal. Your fears and worries compel you to confirm whether they’re real or imaginary.
You see the signs, I would run as far away as you could and be the light in this dark world. I have confronted him with his disrespect towards me and that I know he lies to me.
He says I’m the only one in his life and we will get through this.
I have caught my boyfriend lying a few times now, I am now not even sure what is the truth and what is a lie anymore.